Rip-Off Rating: 4 “snake oils” out of 5

 

What We Recommend Instead:

Tao of Badass – If you want to actually meet and seduce attractive women, you’d better have great game. This is our favorite “bro guide” to being good with hot women.

Adult Friend Finder does not make it easy to find women. It fails on every level. The profiles are fake, the website is almost all men, and even if you do manage to contact a real woman, you have way worse odds than any other dating site.

Our recommendation is to use something normal like Tinder, and then seriously work on your game.

 

 Adult Friend Finder: Around 20 years of scamming people.

Adult Friend Finder is one of the oldest and best known “adult dating sites.” It existed long before Tinder, Match, and others. Its advertisements are still all over the internet.

Can you really find “sexy girls” in Boston? And can you really join for free?

While it is true that the website is a dating site, you can create a free account, and there are real men and women that visit the site, unfortunately it still uses scammy tactics. How so? There are three main complaints with Adult Friend Finder.

1. You can’t message people without a paid account. So it’s not actually free.

2. It is notorious for using fake profiles or for lying about the location and activity of real profiles.

3. It bans accounts for no reason after it has collected your money.

Let’s dive into all three of these complaints, then we’ll take a top level view of Adult Friend Finder and its value.

 

The “fake free” problem

Adult Friend Finder tells you you can create a free account. But a free account is basically worthless. All you can do is see some profiles (which turn out to be fake — see below). 

As they put it, “payment is required for access to any of the site’s interactive features.” That’s absolutely ridiculous. Why would you want an account at a dating site if there are no “interactive features?”

It’s like going to a restaurant that’s promising free food, then saying, “well, you have to pay if you actually want to eat the food!” The idea that the service is free is just to get you in the door. They very quickly start asking for your credit card.

 

The “fake profile” problem

The most common complaint about Adult Friend Finder is that it tricks you to sign up for a premium account by showing you fake profiles of girls you can contact — so long as you sign up!

The girl in Boston? She’s not really in Boston, and she’s not really using Adult Friend Finder.

It’s unclear if Adult Friend Finder is completely lying and creating entirely fake profiles, or if Adult Friend Finder is simply finding the “best of” their site and changing the location of the girl. Either way, the girl is not in your area, and she’s not active. We believe they do a little of both: generating completely fake profiles and altering the details of real profiles.

The point is, why sign up for a service with fake people?

 

The “ban you and take your money” problem

A strange pattern of behavior the site employs is that it bans paid users for no reason whatsoever.

So even if you end up paying for the service, let’s say a year of a premium account, they can ban you after 2 months and take your money!

It’s unclear why this is happening, but banning is so frequent that it’s the number one complaint on watchdog sites like the BBB. Apparently in their terms of service, after you pay them they can tell you to go ahead and fuck off!

 

The problem with Adult Dating in general. Men, there’s no such thing as “Sign Up for Sex”!

 

The issue with Adult Friend Finder in general, even if it were real, is that they promise easy sex from attractive women. This is just not realistic.

Women who aren’t prostitutes aren’t really like that. You need to be a charming, interesting guy and actually seduce women. You can’t just put in your credit card, click a few buttons, and have sex with hot women. Guys, you’re smarter than that. Come on.

If you want to have sex with attractive women, you’re going to have to learn some game. You’re going to have to put yourself out there and date women.

I know, I know. It sounds scary. But you’re dealing with real life human beings — women — not pornography.

Check out our recommended advice instead. And if you manage to find yourself on the AdultFriendFinder site, put down your credit card, please.